Well, you had me until I realized you could’ve been man enough to show yourself after stating this passionate opinion. Also, you completely lost creadibilty when you emphasize that no one is damaged goods, but then you go ahead and lable the person, who says what you supposedly disagree with, with that very label. Not trying to be a dick. Just being real. I hope you’re just being sarcastic because you are NOT damaged goods. You are still a beautiful gem.
Are Single Women Damaged Goods?
There are those situations that we find ourselves in that cause us a great deal of anguish and frustration. There was this girl in college that had a rough few semesters before she figured it out. I heard a story and I am never sure if it was true or folklore that she had slept with almost guys within the first two weeks of school.
When I met this girl she was nice though. I always found girls from big cities to be a bit more aggressive. I thought this girl was actually a very personable young lady and she had a lot to offer to a relationship.
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Tall, handsome and articulate, he seemed put together. That is, until he began to share his story. At first he spoke calmly and deliberately. Even as he discussed himself he did so as if he was speaking about another person, totally aloof and detached. But then the dam broke. With tears in his eyes he shared with me how he was violated and deeply wounded as a child, in ways that I would prefer not to graphically describe here.
Hearing how an innocent defenseless child has been hurt tears your heart out.
This is article 31 to be published on the Get The Guy blog from my brother Stephen. Steve helped co-write the Get The Guy book and is a wealth of knowledge on dating and relationships. Photo: Deborah Freeman.
We have all run into them. To their great sorrow, not all men who encounter the damaged woman can recognize the red flags she hoists and flutters overhead as she prepares to feast on men who are unprepared. These men do not recognize the threat until it is far too late. Their recognition often comes with the sad loss of a marriage, their children taken by the courts, their fortunes unfairly divided and their priceless reputation and even freedom taken from them forever.
You cannot restore your name, the stolen years behind bars, or worst of all the degraded love and respect of the children you have brought into the world. Young men in particular must recognize the red flags of the damaged woman and pay heed to them. They are called red flags because they are a grim and frantic alert of your impending destruction. A red flag flown above a ship means that no quarter will be given in battle. The destruction she brings may be years in the making.
But the damage when it comes is usually catastrophic and unrelentingly painful.
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Why is it so incredibly difficult to find a decent woman? Now before all of you ladies reading this start writing me long emails complaining about how much of an asshole Mr. For a woman to be damaged she must have necessarily been undamaged at some point or another.
My father calmly said to me “ Of course you’ll find someone! Do you know how many MEN have the courage and heart to love a woman with kids.
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So when I’m dating a girl, I never ask, (OH I’ll find out some ish if it’s to be with someone who isn’t “damaged goods” I think the best option is.
Top definition. Aug 26 Word of the Day. That Shit Is Fucked. Guy 1 : Gawd Damn this is some good ass ice cream. Guy 2 : Let me get a lick of that shit dawg. A person, who makes themselves emotionally unavailable due to unfortunate circumstances in the past. Which in turn makes their significant other pay for the mistakes they had to deal with in the past.
Damaged goods tend to run away from their problems instead of facing them head on and tend to make assumptions about present situations due to experiences from the past. Did I do something wrong? Someone who is now undateable or not attractive because of past or current circumstances, but would otherwise be attractive. Becky is damaged goods after she had John’s baby in high school.
Is someone over 40 and never married damaged goods for dating?
This issue of value or worth is extremely important because most of the time, we, girls and women, internalize these toxic and false notions of what it means to be worthy and valuable. As a result, some of us never truly grasp our true worth and value, but instead, place our value in trivial things. Some attribute their value to how their father views them.
This can be positive or negative because all fathers are not emotionally and mentally healthy. Some think their value lies in their beauty or body. Some women even think their value is determined by their skin color or proximity to whiteness.
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He is incredibly patient, he shows me so much love and tenderness. I love Jesus and I want to build my future with a man who has a solid relationship with Jesus. He is always there, gives me all his time and affection. He also respects my choice of purity. Thanks in advance for answering. Its not fair for either person. Sometimes God waits for us to step back, so he can work in their life. I guess thats what we both need to do.
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